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The Now Generation

Deborah Venable

02/19/10

 

I have five children, so why do I show you pictures of only three of them in this article?  Well, simply because they fit into an age group that is the focus of an article by Ilana Mercer about kids born between 1980 and 2001.  Also, because they have pretty much grown into adulthood in the shadow of post 911 and within the computer age, they represent the “now generation” of America’s future. 

 

I hope you’ll read the linked article because Ms. Mercer does make some very good points, and the same thing that evidently “set her off” did the same thing to me when I heard about it – namely Meghan McCain’s recent comments on that media bastion of cultural wisdom, “The View.”  You can read an article about her undermining daddy and see a clip of her comments from this same source if you haven’t already done so.

 

Now we can allow folks like Meghan, (born in 1984 between my two daughters) to speak for the now generation if we want to, or we can place our bets for the hope for America’s future in another direction.  Ilana Mercer mentions another article, which refers to this group as the millennial generation, a.k.a. the “trophy kids” written by Ron Alsop.  Here again, the author makes some good points, but I refuse to believe that we have to perpetuate the negative attitude assigned to young folks because of their age.  I have met too many who do not fit that mold!  I also knew too many of my own generation who did.

 

The entitlement syndrome has been around for a long time and must be laid at the doorstep of poor parenting and an even poorer education system.

 

It seems that many of today’s kids cannot obtain adulthood without also obtaining an elitist attitude accompanying an entitlement syndrome.  They have been taught to expect a college education on a silver platter, or at the very least via a debt leaden future.  So, naturally, they also believe they are entitled to an income that defines their degree or the ability to pay back the huge loans for that education.  No wonder so many young people are overly “picky” about the jobs they take and the work they are expected to do. 

 

In Chapter 16 of my book, Professional Parenting – Raising the Hope For America’s Future, I devote a whole section entitled, “Earning Their Own Way,” to the subject of instilling self-esteem in youngsters.  Since this subject has become such a hot topic lately, it is evident to me that my opinions were not shared by many parents of this millennial generation.  I’ll not regurgitate what I said in the book except to say that self-esteem is earned – not bestowed.

 

I could tell you stories about the three young people pictured above that would illustrate my intense hope for the future simply because of how they have turned out. 

 

My son, Brett, is a self-taught expert on a multitude of subjects, the least of which is not conveying his thoughts through the written word.  He blows me away with every article he sends me.  He has the ability to save and budget for what he wants and the ability to do without what he doesn’t have while he maintains a cheery attitude.

 

The cheery attitude exactly describes Lori’s whole outlook on life.  She works hard for every penny she gets and thoroughly enjoys what it buys her.  She loves her independence and feels entitled to nothing she hasn’t earned.

 

Lacey began working and saving as a very young teenager, both before and after her brush with death from the debilitating illness I wrote about earlier in these columns.  She amassed a small fortune for one so young and used it to purchase her first vehicle for cash when she was only 20.  She still drives it today.

 

Their older sisters have both set excellent work ethic examples for their younger siblings and have always earned the esteem and confidence of their employers.

 

Why shouldn’t I be very hopeful for a future that contains these fine young people?

 

Sure, the trophy kids from the millennium generation are also out there, and the entitlement syndrome is wreaking havoc in an already suffering economy, but all the more reason for the awakening American people to realize just what’s caused this illness in our youths.  It certainly hasn’t helped that a predominantly conservative American public has too often handed the reins of power over to socialist-leaning political elitists educated in a system that has eroded all common sense and knowledge of American heritage to the extent that society now expects something for nothing!

 

It also doesn’t help that so many people get so caught up in their careers and have totally bought into the idea that traditions and family values are whatever they say they are - instead of moral, principled parenting and educating of the younger generation so that they are equipped to handle the real world of living in a free republic, that they are more than willing to turn the job over to someone else.  This is precisely what has happened before in societies that have eventually failed. 

 

But I want to end this on a positive note.  Those children that have been raised with traditional American values deserve our vote of confidence in them.  We may just be old folks that the Meghan McCains of the world have no respect for, but some of us took our responsibilities seriously and did the very best we could in some of the most volatile times the world has ever known.  Now we have no choice but to live out our principles and values in whatever time we have left and hope that America’s future will reflect our best efforts. 

 

God bless America and the now generation that will inherit her!

 

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Obama Marching Us Toward Marshall Law – Powerful YouTube Video that many do not take seriously.  Everyone should ask the question, could it happen?

 

 

New Definition Of Republican Party – In the interest of fairness and balance I’m sure, Fox News continues to let Bob Beckel speak his mind.  Oh, by the way, that definition: the “party of birthers, baggers, and blowhards.”  How does that feel for a label?  I guess it’s better than being lying deceitful cheats who love to shred the Constitution, eh?

 

 

Conservatives Define "Fringe"? – The Tea Party Movement and CPAC have a problem.  How do you define fringe?  Okay, so we know that CPAC is “conservative” but I thought the “movement” did not want a defining cause to box them into any one party or issue.

 

 

Send In the Marines! – About lifting the ban on gays serving openly in the military.  Finally someone who is not living in a paradox!

 

 

Reality Meets Optimism – in this (CNN) poll yet!  Yes, the government’s broken, but we can still fix it!  Great!

 

 

Follow up On the Geert Wilders Story -  Yes, it’s Holland, but look how politicians act in the face of strong individuals trying to warn of very real danger.  If you are not taking notes on this, perhaps you should be.

 

 

1 Billion $ Price Tag – And we need this . . . why?  Another piece of the budget boondoggle.

 

 

Suicide Bombers Still Out There – “Believe it!”  The last sentence in this article says it all.  Do we really care “why” they are out there?  It’s all about killing in the name of their religion. 

 

 

On Verifying Citizenship – Talk about closing the barn door after the horse gets out!  Okay, so this is a “real” issue, but birthers are loons?  What is wrong with this picture?

 

 

Interview with Obama's Marxist buddy – Let this one sink in folks, from his Occidental College days.  He loved the Soviets!

 

 

State Representative Mike Pitts’  Bill Would Ban Federal Currency In SC – Will it come to this, folks?

 

 

I didn’t prepare any Short Stuff entries for this update, but I wish to make a comment on the recent Super Bowl, since I am a football fan.  Congrats to the Saints and the city of New Orleans!  Also, congrats to CBS for garnering the all time record audience for a Super Bowl or anything else for that matter!  Now, about the hype leading up to the television presentation of the super Bowl – HOW ABOUT THOSE TEBOWS!!!!

 

The reaction to the ad, both before and after it was aired, is surely telling of the crisis this still Christian nation faces.  Let that one sink in – and then do a little mining of your own for the Tebow ad and the responses.  (By the way, you feminists should check on Betty White and see if she’s doing okay after the “violence” delivered on her poor old body in the other Super Bowl ad.)  Responses to my opinions always welcome.  DebV

 

 

Ayla Brown Sings With Boston Pops – This is just one link of many available on YouTube about Scott Brown’s already famous daughter, Ayla.  Personally, I think she is a very impressive young woman who reflects positively on her now famous father.  It’s the parenting thing with me I guess.

 

 

Here's An Update on the Geert Wilders trial.  Just a short story, but read the implications of the outcome through this one quote:  It marked an incendiary opening to the landmark case that has divided the Netherlands over the limits of freedom.”  Limits of freedom?  Watch this trial, folks!  It may give us more than a little insight into just how powerful Islamic dominance will become.

 

 

Comparing Reagan With Obama – this short piece reminds us again of the common sense representative compared to the incredible ego.  “Facebook generation” not withstanding, accurate history will hopefully get it right.

 

 

Who else thinks that the birth control pill was the greatest invention of the 20th century – besides Hugh Hefner I mean?  Hardly!  Geoffrey Botkin tells it like it is in this World Net Daily article.  Take a look at his website after you read the article.  Take time for the insightful review of Avatar, whether or not you have seen or plan to see the movie. 

 

 

The Brits rate conservatives and liberals according to their influence in American politics.  Take time to review both these lists, (the top 20 in each) and pay special attention to the comments section that follows.  This is how you really keep your finger on the pulse of the American electorate after all.

 

 

America As the Last Man Standing – a speech by Dutch politician, Geert wilders.  If you haven’t read this before, now is a good time.  As reported January 16, 2010, he has now been charged with a “hate crime” in the Netherlands.  Geert Wilders Speaks is a video interview, (this is part 1 and part 2 is available from this link also.)  The man has been and is being persecuted (and now prosecuted) for speaking his mind, and he deserves to be heard.

 

 

Going, Going, Gong! – Okay, half the fun of this article is reading the comments.  It’s all about the shake up at NBC with Jay and the boys.  For the record, I’ve always liked Jay Leno’s brand of humor.  Conan O’Brien, on the other hand turns me off.  He looks and acts like a scarecrow hopped up on speed.  The only reason I put this here is to ponder a point.  Leno seems to have made enemies – probably due in part to his equal opportunity jabs at BOTH sides of the political aisle.  Think about that one.

 

 

Words Mean Things – Or do they?  Maybe only mean words mean mean things?  Maybe only just words that can be skewed to be racist mean things?  Anybody else think “honest injun” is a racial slur?  How about “white trash” or “black power” or let’s think way back to this article I wrote when the whole Trent Lott debacle happened.

 

 

We the People – and God love Ray Stevens!  From Ahab the Arab to this one, he just keeps getting better with age!  Don’t miss this one, folks.  Have a listen to a real American Patriot Entertainer!

 

 

Look Them In The Eyes – The difference between airport security in Israel and North America – time and individual attention to the individual – not their “stuff”!  Good article and well worth the read!

 

 

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What He Sees

Deborah Venable

01/30/10

 

He’s had his say so can we please

Look at what he really sees?

He’s come before us for a year,

To tell us what we want to hear,

Or so he thinks, but that’s not why

He cannot look us in the eye.

 

The truth would never set him free,

For he sees what he wants to see.

Truth he doesn’t understand,

For lies are all he’s ever planned.

He has no interest in the views

Of people he would then abuse.

 

A leader, as the word implies,

Could prove that he is truly wise,

Through all the things that he has done,

Which tell us all why he’s the one

That we should follow, come what may,

And hear just what he has to say.

 

We’ve listened, though he says we’ve not,

We’ve seen our ever-dwindling lot

Played out upon his actor’s stage,

Where he cannot begin to guage

Effects of acts he forces still

Against the people and their will.

 

What he sees as he looks out

Across this land that’s full of doubt,

Is not that beacon on the hill

Where people come to drink their fill

Of freedom, sweet with honey’s taste,

And heritage we must not waste.

 

No.  What he sees does not reflect

Anything but great defect

That only he must change and show

How wrong the Founders were, you know,

To document our rights from God

Instead of governmental nod.

 

He does not see a nation strong,

And will not say that he is wrong,

To wish that we would lose our pride

In principles he can’t abide.

Our very freedom can’t allow

This land to ever take that bow.

 

He’s not an ideologue, says he.

He thinks we simply cannot see

That policies he would dictate

Preclude inviting a debate.

But if we question not his rule,

He’d be the king and we the fool!

 

He lectures with a boldness new,

Without respect for any who

Would disagree with his desire

To see our liberties expire

With policies that he’d impose

To saddle us with wretched woes.

 

I’ve had my say, and that’s my right,

And I thank God for this insight

Which tells me every single day

That for my country I should pray.

And yes, even for this man

That God’s included in His plan.

 

Hatred’s not the Christian way

To get our point across and say

That what he sees does not define

America that’s yours and mine.

For what he sees will never be

If we, the people, remain free!

 

 

 

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